As Americans, what can we do?

I’m 25F living in Seattle, WA. I don’t want Canada to be the 51st state. I don’t want Greenland, I don’t want the Gulf of America. I am aware that we are watching our government shift quickly into an oligarchy, Elon Musk is throwing out Nazi salutes left and right. I’m a teacher, I’m not religious, I’m a female, and I’m queer. My partner moved here from South America while extremely young. If America truly creates conflict with Canada, I cannot fight with America as I don’t think we should be antagonizing anyone and my rights are directly being stripped away. daily. What would you do? I’m not alone in this fearful feeling. Just seeking advice from someone on the other side of the growing conflict, if you have the empathy to spare.