Is there any AM here in an AMXF relationship who has NOT gotten any bad comments, racism, or harassment for it?

Do you know any AM dating (or has dated) XF who has NOT gotten more than maybe one or two insults or negative comments about it in his life? As opposed to none at all because maybe that's being too optimistic lmao

Anyone whose XF partner has NOT gotten any "why are you with him" comments or racism assumptions in general said out loud by people around her (at least, basically the XF partner has never reported having gotten any racism for her boyfriend or husband)?

Do you think the majority of AMXF irl are mostly free from harassment of any kind, or is the situation really as bad as some may think it is?

edit: I asked people this question too on aznidentity and the anecdotes seemed to share much more negative 'reports'. Wonder why. Don't know if this is just a coincidence or not