I was not disappointed on my birthday today!

I was so scared WP was gonna drop the ball today for my birthday. He’s not good at this kind of stuff. If he disappointed me on my birthday before the affair I would’ve just let it go and chalked it up to his disinterest in romantic gestures. Now I can’t excuse away my needs and desires not being met. I need more than I did before. Anyway. I was so nervous that he would be too self absorbed today I looked up “birthday” in this sub to see if others experienced anxiety or turmoil over this kind of thing and it turned out I’m not alone. First birthdays are tough.

I was shocked to find candles and flowers and rose petals and a beautiful loving well written card. He made dinner and left lots of space for me to talk and vent and even be triggered. He was affectionate and gave me all the love I’ve been craving lately.

Just wanted to share. I think the fact that I had let go of all expectations helped me enjoy the evening and contributed to a safe energy for WP. I want to practice this more.