Sorry that we’re here

Hi all,

Had a difficult moment today but was thankfully able to keep my composure. I thought of all of us here and how my heart breaks thinking of how many of us are struggling with our new reality.

These are the things I wish someone said to me (aside from my therapist who I pay to help me feel better 🤣), but never really heard. So I’m saying it here in the hopes that it makes someone feel seen, and validated (maybe?).

I’m so sorry you’re having to heal over something you had no control of.

I’m sorry that at some point in your journey, you felt like you questioned your worth as a person because of someone else’s actions. When in reality, your worth and value never changed. This was not on you.

I’m sorry that you spend hours reading, listening, researching about infidelity - just to try to make sense of it all.

I hope and pray the healing we are looking forward to is closer than we think. And that we get to find peace, and keep it.

One day at a time. ❤️‍🩹