Am I expecting a lot?
I am talking to someone i met through matrimonial app. I have made some observations based on our conversations so far. 1. He interrupts a lot. I find it really annoying specially when i am talking about important topics. He interrupts, adds his thoughts and steers the conversation in a direction that he wants to and doesn’t even acknowledge that i was interrupted. I ignored initially but this seems to be a pattern now. While i understand this is something that can be worked upon i am not able to shake it out of my mind. And these are some important topics like non negotiables, childhood, ambitions, etc
He didnt offer to pay for the first date and instead directly told the waiter that bill will be split. I am obviously going to pay my share and infact would have insisted that we split but i also think it’s generous to atleast offer. And on top of it he didn’t speak to me about splitting directly mentioned it to the waiter.
He sometimes sends 12-13 messages at once without waiting for me to respond and sometimes just ends the conversation over text abruptly by either not responding or using an emoji on the message. I am not sure how to maintain conversation continuity.
I also observed that sometimes he mirrors my answers.
I think these are really basic etiquettes. Considering i have never interrupted him and infact made it clear that i value listening skills and find it annoying if someone doesn’t let other person finish. Im