Should I move forward?

Apologies in advance for the long post:

I am 36 yo (M) NRI in US met this girl 28 Yo from Canada on matrimonial site. She seemed attractive in the pics first but during video call she was way overweight, and didn't seem like the pics. I moved past that fixation, because our vibe has been good.

I am a non IT engineer and make about 135K/yr USD and she has a bachelor's degree in an Arts field from Canadian university, and was in a non technical field job. Like a team leader, making about 70K/yr canadian.

I feel we have a good vibe, and she said she was supportive and understanding of my life challenges.

She came to see me the first time for a week within 3 months of us talking And we had a good time, I took her on a vacation. I expresses my feelings for her, and shared my concerns about her health and lifestyle. She assured me she's going to work on it. Wake up in time. (go to the gym) etc. And improve her lifestyle.

Fast forward many months, she was going to the gym etc. Training with a trainer, but not fully disciplined. we met again She even came to Europe to support me (on her expense) for a prestigious technical conference i was asked to come present two papers at. This really made me feel that she cares. Granted it was a vacation for her too and we saw around in Europe.

My concerns still were her career and lifestyle. I had suggested her to prioritize getting into a graduate school program in Canada since we met. Because I was not confident if her career/job is stable. And to also work on her lifestyle, health etc.

Fast forward almost 9 months, she loses her job. Gets laid off. And it's been 4 months and she can't find another job. The only job she could find is retail or so. And she works one.

And the progress on her lifestyle and health wasn't remarkable, where I felt that someone was truly disciplined or committed about it.

She had insisted, that she came to US many times but I never went to Canada. I recently met her family, in Canada. And they were quite warm and welcoming. But i feel that the underlying concerns between me and her are still unresolved. And I feel that she is quite non-challant about her career and health. I even mentioned this to her mother. And me being older (almost 37, lack of options as NRI in US and age) , and living the challenging life on H1B etc. Taking care of an elderly mother by myself who lives with me. Unsure if I can proceed forward.

I have had deep feelings for her. But I am afraid of the patterns I see, should I commit and move forward? I still want this to work. But I am just afraid.

I was afraid to post this, but I am hopeful I could have some clarity.