AITA for telling my friends and family I’m the breadwinner now?

Last year I finally finished my fellowship and started my first staff nephrologist job. My wife also gave birth to our son and was still on mat leave. I have told our friends and family that I’m the breadwinner because at the time I was (although my wife still got paid due to her company mat leave policy). I think I said it in front of her once which she didn’t comment but I also said it when she wasn’t around.

Now she’s mad because our friends and family were under the assumption that she is quitting her job to be a SAHM. She is a product manager and made most of the income for us when I was a resident doctor. I do think I’m the breadwinner now because I make most of the income for us where as she did before but she thinks I can only say that if she quit and I was the sole income earner. She also is mad because everyone thought she was not going back to work they criticized her for putting our son on wait lists for daycare and hiring a cleaner etc. I think she is very sensitive about the SAHM comments but I didn’t ever say she wasn’t going back to work or that she was going to be a SAHM directly. She is mad because everyone took it to mean that and that even if they didn’t take it as such that it is offensive to her to say I’m the breadwinner when she still makes a sizeable portion of the income.