AITA for asking my neighbour to stop her dog barking

My neighbour has a small dog that barks incessantly when she or her husband leave the house to go shopping or do errands. This can be anywhere from 20 mins to an hour. I texted her and said "is there any way you can get her to stop barking when you're out? She yaps for ages". She responded "It's only for a short time, what do you want me to do?" I said "maybe you could investigate some training methods? Id really appreciate it as it's quite distressing ". She replied "no".

I then ran into her husband outside and asked him if he could get the dog to stop barking whilst they are out. He agreed with me that her bark could be annoying and said he'd see what he could do. I said thankyou and went inside.

A short while later I was leaving the house and ran into her outside and asked if she was mad at me. She said she was. I said I didn't think my request was unreasonable. She said "the place is a fucking monastery, she's a dog, you can't manipulate me like (insert name of other neighbour), you're lucky I work from home and not in an office eight hours a day". I didn't know what to say so I just walked away.

Two days later I'm walking out my front door and there are two small sloppy dog poops covered in flies, on the communal lawn. There is always dog poop on the lawn. I text the neighbour group chat as there are two dog owners in our building. I hardly ever complain about the poop, but I'm annoyed now. "hi everyone, there are two dog poops covered in flies on the grass. Could you please remove them, thanks".

Neighbour A responds :" sure, I'll do that as soon as I get home". Barky dog neighbour says: "how do you know it's ours? I've seen your cat poop on the grass".

I don't think it's my cat. She poops pretty regularly in her litter tray. But how can I be sure?

I respond "I don't know. Let's leave it there then. No worries ". I'm getting afraid of the confrontation and I just want it to be over.

I'm now anxious about running into her and I can't stop thinking about these interactions.

AITA for asking her to stop her dog barking when she's out?