Woman claims to be pregnant by me. Need advice.
Woman claims to be pregnant by me
Woman claims to be pregnant by me, not sure where to go from here.
We hooked up twice, On Jan 3rd and Jan 9th this year i (40M)hooked up with a (47F) which we didnt use condoms (i know i know) but i did however pull out both times.
Im not going to lie, i lost interest and sort of ghosted her while she kept texting me long messages trying to get my attention to which i didnt reply.
On Jan 19th shes texts me that we "need to speak about something that affects the both of us" i ask what she tells me shes away on vacation for the weekend and i would tell me in 3 days which i didnt like, she said she rather have a face to face meeting to discuss it, i already in the back of my mind knew where she was going with this but it got me annoyed that she needed 3 days to tell me something and that it had to be face to face, if its that important just tell me right then and there, no?
So anyway i reluctantly agree to meet her at a sports bar, which i forgot o mention she told me the day before she was out with a friend and had 2 alcoholic drinks and when we met at the bar she ordered a expresso martini...weird no? so we sit down and talk and we discussed what went wrong with us to which i told her "i dont see a romantic future" with you but she insisted on us seeing each other with no pressure.
So i asked here is "that everything" and she goes no theres still more but this isnt the right time or place for it and that she didnt like my energy which got me even more angry because i felt like she was playing mind games at this point. So i called her out on it and said i feel like your being manipulative and playing games and she didnt like that. She then proceeds to go home and take a video of her peeing in a cup and placing the pee in a pregnancy test to which is did come out positive. She claims she took the a test after missing her period, idk.
In my mind i have so many diffrent views on this in my head is spinning, like is this a last jab at attention from me? is this something to hold over my head to make me want to stay with her? i told her if it is mine, its like were strangers, i dont see a future with you, your age puts you at high risk and plus shes on some sort of chemo pills to shrink a tumor she has on her head...and oh yeah the drinking, how is any of this an ideal situation?
she said she will talk to her doctors and she if having the baby would affect her health and if not she leaning towards keeping it.
sorry guys just needed to vent, my anxiety has been crazy these past few days.
Update: today she sent me a vague message saying “everything is fine, well regarding my health” and proceeded to block me.
Td;lr: a woman I messed around with for two weeks and hooked up with on two occasions claims she’s pregnant by me, but the whole situation seems a little sketchy or an attention grab.