Aitah for dating somebody

My (36m) romantic love interest (33f) told me she only wants to be friends and she is nowhere near ready to date anybody due to her just getting divorced a few months ago, even though we’ve had feelings for each other for a long time. She rarely messages me when I message her if I ask how her day is going, she ignores it if I say good morning how are you this morning or how did you sleep? She doesn’t respond. If I say good night, she doesn’t respond. she never showed me any affection of anybody who cared about me so I decided to go out and start talking to people and I found somebody I really like so I started talking to her (32f) and now me and her are dating. And this morning we decided we were going live on Facebook and said friend who pretty much shows no romantic interest in me whatsoever got extremely jealous and mad that I was dating somebody stating I thought two weeks ago you said you loved me mind you this was months ago that I told her this. So am I the asshole here?