Update: AITHA for telling my sisters boyfriend it’s not his business if I don’t want to be a stay at home mom?
So this is the update:
I already knew I was going to go no contact with her boyfriend (as I don't feel safe around him.) But I went ahead and called my sister to tell her and why I chose no contact with. And she is now super mad at me saying I overreacted and all that fun stuff. So I asked her if they were going to apologize and she said they don't owe me an apology and I owe him an apology.
He overhead us on the phone and once again got into the conversation and I told him I have nothing to say to him. He told me he wanted to know an answer to two of his questions.
Why I don't want to be a STHM. Told him it's none of this business and to stay in his lane.
Why I don't want to date/marry his friend. Told him that he isnt my type and never will be. And to not talk to me again.
He told me if I don't stop overreacting I won't have anything to do with my nephews and niece. And that ngl got to me. And I told him for my mental health I'm done being/talking to him. And my sister said okay you made your choice and we will make ours. So now I'm no contact with both of them.
Also found out my dad found out yesterday and this morning after I was on phone with them he went and yelled at Josh and told him to back off. And that his daughter wasn't for sell or anything like that. And they got into a fist fight. And apparently my dad won. (I'm not totally sure about that tho) and my dad called me and apologized and asked me personally why I don't want to be a stay at home mother so I told him the reason (which had to do with my dad, stepmom) and he apologized to me saying that he never ment to do that to her. (He was very abusive to her) at one point I saw him choke her and screamed and he let her go but never apologized for it..
So I decided to cut off my sister and her boyfriend which sucked cause I won't able to see my niece and nephews anymore but my mental health and physical health is more important to me tbh.