Bf said vasectomy is worse than bc.

AITAH for getting upset at my bf about his vasectomy comment. I (24f) started taking birth control again after my IUD fell out - very painful- and told my bf (25m) that I’m scared about the side effects. Jokingly I said he could get a vasectomy and he replied that it’s much harder for men to go thru that and it affects their mental health much worse than for a woman to take bc. Told him that it’s worse for women because it’s additional hormones every single day that affects our mental state, weight, emotions, and acne. He continued to defend himself and say it’s way worse for men. So AITAH for staying upset at my bf because he doesn’t understand the sacrifice I’m making just to let him finish inside me?

Edit:::: I’m not sure if some of you guys are even reading the post correctly. I did not ask him to get a vasectomy done and I’m not asking him to, I made a joke stating he could get one. But maybe some of you guys don’t know how to joke around. I was initially upset because he was saying vasectomy is worse and harder than BC. Don’t worry guys we talked about it and were doing good!