Men don’t really like women, they like to FUCK women but they don’t like them
“To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.
Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.”
- Marilyn Frye
Most male culture is homoerotic and most men don’t really like women as people but as objects to fulfill their sexual/personal desires. This is why a lot of men can’t really be friends with women because being just friends pose no benefit to him and he doesn’t really see her as a human being