Continue dating or end it?
I am F25 and he is M25 and we have been dating for one month. He seems just perfect for me. I believe he is SUCH a good person with great values and I have never had such great chemistry with someone. I really admire and respect him as a person.
About a week ago though, I found out that he isn’t sure if he wants kids. Not leaning either way.
Long story short, I ended things because I know that I definitely DO want kids, and I feel like I can’t afford to waste any time. I definitely don’t want to cut it super close to the time around when I do want kids (30/35) and then feel like I have to quickly leave this guy and find someone else.
However, I’m feeling so much regret and questioning if I did the right thing by ending it. I told him I could give our relationship 3 more months and then reassess things if he wants to. But he didn’t think 3 months would bring him clarity on the topic.
I’m so devastated! Never met anyone like him. No one ever makes me laugh, but he did. I don’t think I’ll ever find someone I like as much