parents asking to check into my bank account .....

Assalamulaikum,

not sure if this is the correct subredditbut want to ask anyway

I have been married for 2 years now, my parents are asking me to show them my bank accounts to check where I am spending my money. i.e how much I am spending on my wife and siblings etc. I have tried explaining to them that this is a private matter now since I am married and they could have checked before my marriage and I also give my parents money for their use even though they have refused... I think its my responsibility against them... because of this they are getting angry and accusing me of disobedience. I have explained to them that after marriage my finances are my private matter now and they cannot look into this any more

I have refused to share my back account statements with them and they have asked me to leave the house and say that it's their right to check If I can not obey them then I can leave.

I tried letting them know that there may be an expenditure that are private to me and my wife but they are very much forcing saying that its been a way of things since generations to give all money to parents and all that.. I said that not the way, and said if you need money I can support them (I already do. give them $200 monthly to spend but at the same time buy them anything they want without any questions asked)

my question is can parents check my bank account? please advise.

edit...

they want to cut contacts and said I will get my share of the will according to shariah....